My friend Todd and I were talking about knowledge and opinion the other night, and he brought up a line from a song by an artist we both admire, Paul McCartney. It was “Early Days” from his latest album “New,” an autobiographical sentiment which seems to harken back to McCartney’s days with The Beatles. He sings:
Now everybody seems to have their own opinion
Of Who did this and who did that
But as for me I don't see how they can remember
When they weren't where it was at
I like this, but I disagree with it in part.
We’ve probably all reminisced about something with the people who were there, only to hear them tell completely different stories of the same event. I know I’ve experienced this many times. I’ll recount a childhood memory with my mother and she’ll remember something else, different facts, different bits of information.
Who’s right?
All of us.
Journalists and writers know that the subjects of their biographies are not the most reliable witnesses.
The way we see the world, what shapes our memories of ourselves, is often viewed through rose-colored glasses. Even when not flattering, our memories of ourselves are often imprecise.
Why?
I think our emotional memories are stronger than our factual memories. We have vivid and precise memories of how we felt and reacted, but we often get the facts wrong.
Who are we if not our emotional realities?
Biographers can research and improve upon facts, but they often fall short of DEFINING their subjects, of knowing and understanding them, of giving us a sense of who they were and why they did what they did.
I think two things. I think biographers, when they’re qualified, can tell more accurate stories of their subjects than their subjects can. But I also believe only the subjects can give us accurate depictions of who they are.
Related to that, I see most of life as imprecise, having few absolutes. I think we need to accept and embrace the grayness. They say the best actors are those who live in the moments apart from their rehearsed expectations. That makes sense to me.
I don’t know if this relates much to the conversation Todd and I had, but it got me wondering about what truth, knowledge and reality are.
I don’t know if this relates much to the conversation Todd and I had, but it got me wondering about what truth, knowledge and reality are.






